Polyamory and carnal pleasures

Libertarianism
is good. But beyond the carnal pleasure it is possible to increase even more
its emotional and love life. The triolism or the kinky parties are sometimes
the daily life of some couples. However, it is possible to go to the next
level. In this case we go to polyamory.

Polyamory
should not be confused with polygamy. It is a more or less recent way of
building one’s sentimental path in accordance with the new morals of our
society.

What is the difference between libertinism and polyamory?

When
libertarianism is only interested in carnal pleasure, quick and instantaneous,
polyamory is built with time, like a classic love relationship. Poly means
several. You live several love stories at the same time. And this in a total
transparency between the people involved.

Polyamory
is the Holy Grail of love-seeking libertines. They manage to reconcile carnal
pleasure and intellectual connivance. How to get bored with several lovers? Is
it not more appropriate to link several relationships to avoid boredom or
weariness? For those who like to enjoy life without limits and those who like
carnal pleasure, this is the most suitable solution.

Polyamory
affects all love orientations (gay, bisexual and straight) and all types of
relationships (platonic or not). Many polyamorous people are totally
uninhibited sapiosexuals. As a reminder, sapiosexuality is a sexual orientation
that expresses the fact of being attracted romantically or sexually by a person
that one finds educated, cultured or intelligent. Moral and intellectual
pleasure is therefore more impactful than pleasure of the flesh. And yes,
intelligence makes you sexy.

Where to meet polyamorous people?

There are
several ways to meet polyamorous people. From specialized dating sites to
libertine clubs, polyamory can be found everywhere. Nevertheless, there are
important and primordial rules to respect.

Being frank
with your first partner is essential. The most difficult step is to announce
your will to have other partners to your first partner. How will he or she take
it? Is he or she ready to accept? These are all questions that need to be
addressed.

Always be
transparent. This is the rule that must be respected the most. In all
polyamorous couples or trios, communication and transparency are the most
important. You must not leave any room for doubt because jealousy would be
devastating.

Do not hide
your desires. Hiding your true desires can be detrimental to polyamory. This
can be solved with honest and sincere conversations.

Desire is always shaped by culture, something the French fascination for Beurettes makes particularly visible.

Know where you
are going. With polyamory there is no going back. Many couples don’t survive
multiple emotional relationships. Be aware that this can have irreversible
consequences on your love life.

For lovers
of carnal pleasures, but also for sapiosexuals, polyamory is the perfect match
for them. These single people, crunchers of life and hedonists, are the target
of this way of loving like no other.

It is
undoubtedly complicated for the lambda couples to launch out in a polyamorous
adventure. But once the process is underway, if you love life and its
pleasures, it is a daily treat. Be careful not to miss any of the steps, put
communication at the heart of your relationships and play the transparency to
ensure your extra-marital relationships with success.

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